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What Happens in Your House Is More Important Than the White House

Written by Dan Goeddel, MBA | May 19, 2025, 1:00:00 PM

Turn on the news and you’ll be flooded with political noise—but let’s cut through the clutter:

What matters most to your family’s financial future isn’t in Washington, D.C.—it’s within your own four walls.

At Gatewood, we help families shift their focus away from the headlines they can’t control and toward the household habits they can. While income tends to steal the spotlight, spending is the real unsung hero of long-term financial independence. Most financial advisors avoid talking about spending—it can feel too personal, too awkward. They fear upsetting clients by confronting sensitive realities. But not us. We believe in honest conversations because financial discipline today lays the foundation for your family’s future freedom.

Understanding the Budgeting Landscape

Clients often ask us: “How much should I spend on housing?” or “Am I saving enough?”

To help answer these, here’s a comparison of how three well-known frameworks—Dave Ramsey, the CFP Board, and CFA-informed guidance—stack up:

Category Dave Ramsey CFP Board CFA-Informed
Housing & Utilities 25% ≤ 28% 25–30%
Transportation 10–15% ≤ 15% 10–15%
️ Food & Groceries 10–15% 10–15% 10–15%
⚕️ Health Care 5–10% 5–10% 5–10%
Education & Childcare 5–10% 5–10% 5–10%
Consumer Debt 0% ≤ 10% ≤ 10%
Total Debt (incl. housing) ≤ 35–40% ≤ 36% ≤ 36–40%
Entertainment & Personal 5–10% 5–10% 5–10%
️ Miscellaneous Included in personal 5–10% 5–10%
️ Savings, Insurance, and Investments 10–15%+ 10–20% ≥ 15–20%
Giving & Charity 10% recommended 5–10% (flexible) 5–10% (flexible)

Key Differences:

  • Dave Ramsey: Strict, debt-focused with a heavy emphasis on giving and zero-based budgeting
  • CFP Board: Offers guardrails with room to personalize
  • CFA-Informed: Focuses on principles like discipline, long-term growth, and risk alignment (Ex: Budgeting isn’t about rigid rules—it’s about aligning your resources with your values, goals, and risk tolerance.)

The Gatewood Family Budgeting Guidelines

At Gatewood, we synthesized the best of all approaches and added real-life insight. Here’s our proprietary guide we call The Gatewood Family Budgeting Guidelines:

Category Gatewood Target (±5%)
Housing & Utilities 25%
Transportation 10%
️Food & Groceries 10%
Health Care 7.5%
Education & Childcare 7.5%
Consumer Debt 0% (yes, zero!)
Total Debt (incl. housing) 25%
Entertainment & Personal 5%
️Miscellaneous 5%
Savings, Insurance, and Investments 20% (go for more!)
Giving & Charity 10%

A Look Inside Our Home: My Family’s Budget Case Study

We don’t just preach these principles—we live them. Here’s a transparent look at how my family’s real monthly spending lines up with our own guidelines (below). These figures are after our 401(k) and HSA contributions are maximized. As you will see, the Goeddel family is far from perfect! I hope sharing this information and being vulnerable is helpful to you and your family.

Category Gatewood Guidelines (%) Actual Family Spending ($) Actual Family Spending % Notes
Housing & Utilities 25% $8,400 34% $7,000 mortgage plus extra principal payments; $1,400 bills & utilities
Transportation 10% $500 2% Just gas—no car payments
️Food & Groceries 10% $3,300 13% $2,500 groceries, $600 dining out or delivery, $200 coffee
Health Care 7.5% $500 2% Out-of-pocket medical
Education & Childcare 7.5% $2,000 8% 529 Plan contributions for two kids
Consumer Debt 0% $0 0% None!
Total Debt 25% $7,000 28% Mortgage
Entertainment & Personal 5% $3,400 14% Amazon, clothes, date nights, personal care, pets
️Miscellaneous 5% $1,500 6% Unplanned monthly expenses
️Savings, Insurance, and Investments 20% $3,000 12% Trust contributions + full insurance suite
Giving & Charity 10% $2,400 10% Charitable giving + gifts to family/friends

A Few Highlights

Where We’re Winning

  • Mortgage is our only debt
  • Long-term savings and insurance plans are in place

Where We’re Improving

  • Reducing “Entertainment & Personal” (Amazon!!!) and “Miscellaneous”
  • Increasing savings beyond the 401(k) closer to 20%

Take Control of Your Financial Future

Financial freedom isn’t found in the headlines—it’s built through intentional habits, month after month. At Gatewood, we help families match their money with their values—so they can create meaningful wealth and lasting legacies.

Ready to align your budget with your future? Let’s talk. We’re here to help.

Important Disclosures:

The opinions voiced in this material are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual.

Investing involves risk including loss of principal. No strategy assures success or protects against loss.

Dave Ramsey is not affiliated with or endorsed by LPL Financial and Gatewood.